Manual A Christians Perspective Journey Through Grief

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On the morning they killed Osama bin Laden my daughter called me in the middle of the night to tell me about it. Richard, the guy I talked to about it, appears to be the only person who can listen to things like this — especially in the middle of the night — and NOT make judgments of me. So I just plain like him and feel utterly grateful to him for being able to be with me without judging me during my darkest hours. I am an Episcopal priest and also a recent widow. In our Book of Common Prayer, we have the following written with our funeral service: It finds all meaning in the resurrection.

Because Jesus was raised from the dead, we, too, shall be raised. The very love we have for each other in Christ brings deep sorrow when we are parted by death. Jesus himself wept at the grave of his friend.

So, while we rejoice that one we love has entered into the nearer presence of our Lord, we sorrow in sympathy with those who mourn. These are wonderful and comforting words, Rev. Thank you so much for sharing! It is wonderful to know you are sharing this with families. I have no doubt it is reassuring to them in their grief! We just have recently lost my grandma who has lived with us and faith is very important to us or at least to me to deal with her very sudden and unexpected dead.

It also helps a lot that we know she was not afraid of death and believed in being reunited with her family in heaven. I have been wrestling with this very question for about a month now. Thank you for this post. Though I walk a different path then most, I do understand both sides of the grief issue. I know they wake each morning and for a brief time, think that everything is OK.

Then they crash back into reality. It will never be OK like it was, life might be bearable, but that beloved child is in spirit.


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That said, I have also some frustrations. Some folks are so wrapped up in their grief and use it a sole perspective.

Anything difficult in your life for instance, like right now I have Shingles for the second time in my life, my 24 year old son was diagnosed with a Hereditary Iron Disorder in Nov. He lost his job, and last month was arrested. Guns for a traffic stop. Then there was the 8 hours handcuffed at the Precinct without being allowed to make a phone call.

Anyhow, prayers he gets a break tomorrow.

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He is clean and sober now. Who I used to send an ecard to every Monday night — her daughter went into spirit on a Tuesday AM — who I told via email of my shingles resurgence. Emailed me again after 3 weeks to see if every thing was OK. And I told her Again, what was going on.

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This person who I was there for after the first year, the second year, the third year, the fourth and yes, fifth. She did not reply. I guess my role was to always be the Rock and support her and I think that is wrong. I think that some folks may wrap themselves up in their grief and use it as an excuse to be, say a shitty friend pardon my language. I am trying not to confront her on this, but I really do ask myself, at what point does the person who is bereaved, become a despot in a relationship and always expect the empathy, when they are no longer capable of even saying: Obviously you can delete this if it is inappropriate.

I just needed to get that off my chest. The Death of a loved one changes people.

If You Lost a Loved One - How to Grieve a Loss

But it does not give them the right to be the exclusive receiver of support. Sometimes it actually helps with grief to share and to give, and I hope my friend or perhaps ex-friend finds that place for herself. From my own experince with grief grandmother passed away 2 days before my wedding. There are some parts that are really deep and dark, there are other parts that are shallow and lighter and there are waves.

During the first year after her passing, grief was more deep, dark and full of waves. I would be doing something random i. Then there were other times when I could laugh and remeber how much fun she and I had. It was like a roller coaster, with ups and downs. It goes up and down. There are good days and there are not so good days.

Sure, you can live without an arm or leg and the rest of your body will still function but that will never negate the fact that you miss the absent limb. CS Lewis makes that analogy about grief and I have always thought it was a great analogy. Funny you mention crying in Target- I wrote a post about that very thing!! So, needless to say I can relate http: Beth, thank you so much for all of your amazing posts. Your site has helped me so much already and much of my family too. Oh, and I cried on the plane on the way into Texas just this morning!

While I take comfort that we had no regrets of unspoken words, 14 years later, I still miss his welcoming presence in my life. I found that people let you talk about your grief for just so long and then it is necessary to find a professional to spill over on. I found the film Moonlight Mile very therapeutic, especially the parts about thoughtless well meaning people giving books and spouting platitudes. There is a great book for children of all ages that is laid out like a picture book called Tear Soup, which has to do with all of us having our own recipes and cooking times for our very own Tear Soup.

My husband passed away six months ago on Christmas Eve. But as things settle in more, I tend to keep redefining that phrase. I am realizing, as you pointed out, that grief is about my experience of loss and feeling his absence, not a pain or sympathy for where he is. So I can say with equal intensity that my grief is hard and overwhelming right now, but my faith and hope are strong. I do think people tend to have a difficult time reconciling those extremes at once, and I definitely have felt the lessening of understanding and support of grief as more time has passed.

I always appreciate your blog and am thankful for how you addressed this topic. I am a pastor.

Grief and Faith: the relationship between belief and grief

Part of my responsibility is to help people grieve in the light of Christian hope. We need to remember that Jesus grieved the death of his dear friend Lazarus whom he would restore to life in a matter of moments. We also need to think of how the late Granger Westburg dealt with that 1 Thess. Pastor Moody, thank you so much for taking the time to comment and for your service to grieving congregants! This article reflected my experience well. Two main things for me. And I was surprised that I could feel so peaceful about his departure in a spiritual sense and still have so much to grieve.

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The first year or so of grieving there was an anchor on my heart, but friendships deepened and my sense of connection was huge. My friends moved on. I truly am not sure if it was my friends or my expectations on myself—but I found it harder to ask for what I needed. Or perhaps it was because I had moved to grieving the million little things that are part of a loving partnership—like a thank you for emptying the dishwasher and the ongoing opportunities for reflection on everything.

Hard to call a friend for those tiny but important things.

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I am filling the gaps in ways others often find difficult to understand, but I honor what works for me. Your email address will not be published. We respect your email privacy. Powered by AWeber Email Marketing. Username Password Remember Me. Home Blog Grief and Faith: Ellie December 15, at 7: Kathy davis July 10, at 3: Wendy July 14, at 8: Moira McCullough May 13, at 5: Vicki B January 5, at 5: Brenda August 22, at Litsa Williams August 22, at Sandra July 3, at 1: Susie July 1, at 6: Belle July 1, at 5: Stephanie Root July 1, at Heiney; Promise Publishing Company, Answers common questions about death and coping.

A small boy is reassured through open interactions with his mom and dream-like interactions with his dead father. Getting Through the Night: Getting to the Other Side of Grief: Zonnebelt-Smeenge; Baker Book House, A psychologist and pastor collaborated on this book after both were widowed. A Grief Observed by C. Clerk, it is the author's journal of doubts, rage and faith journey following the death of his wife. He Gathers Your Tears: Words of Comfort for a Widow's Heart by Phyllis Moore; Wynwood, This candid, unfettered account pairs journal entries with scriptures of hope.

Praying Our Goodbyes by Joyce Rupp; Ave Maria Press, This scripturally based book includes end of chapter questions for reflection and 24 prayer experiences. A Time to Grieve: Moore; Abingdon Press, A Candle for Grandpa: This book is listed for the kindergarten to third grade levels.